Maggu_Diva

 No! I am not making any cat-sound. I accidently met with an article online which says that your tongue should have a proper posture too. It says by resting your tongue on the roof of your mouth and at the same time keeping your upper set of teeth on top of  your lower set you maintain the proper resting position for your tongue and it leads to facial features development like more pronounced jawline. It also helps in maintain a proper breathing habit. Most of us unconsciously breathe through our mouth which is not good from health point of view. So mewing is a technique named after the orthodontist John Mew who discovered this. In this technique you are supposed to rest your tongue on the roof of your mouth so that your tip is just behing the incisiors, also you have to keep your upper teeth set on top of lower and keep your mouth shut. Practicing this takes time and visible results appear in 2-3 years.. yes thats a long time! But its not only about the results. Its about the...

 Dear R Jay, I am sure you are the most beautiful bride you have ever seen. So finally the day has come. I cannot tell you what a happy moment it is. I know you must be worried or tensed or having a cold feet but believe me you just stay calm and enjoy every moment of it. You are marrying the right one I am sure. Always remember.. what you practice grows stronger. You try to build the relationship.. and I am sure it will grow to be the best bond. Make some efforts and always take some time off of redefine if it gets boring. If you invest wisely you will be happy in the long run. Try to complement each other and love unconditionally. And never forget to love yourself as well. I do love you and I am so happy that I am writing this letter to you. I wish you all the best and you be your best. Right now I sometimes feel hopeless regarding my marriage, but deep down I know you will get the best.  Love  R Jay 

 I really don't know what I am going to write today, Its just some thoughts that constantly are nagging.  Its related to my future. I don't weather I should go for a job after my PhD or to continue with research. This question needs more clarity. I am if I opt for post doc after PhD then my age with exceed to get a decent paying job which I my opinion is ONGC job. I am quite confused for that but i think i will give myself some time to decide, there is no rush.

 Dear R Jay, I know you, You must be working on your resolutions right now as its your habit to create new resolutions every year on this day and promising yourself that this time will be different and this time you will stick to it. I know its difficult to stick to plans and work accordingly, but you know what I am proud of you. The reason I am so proud is that you exactly know what is good for you and that's why every year you make plans to exercise and study more. What my problem is I get distracted a lot , this year I want you to just try not to fill your mind with crappy thoughts. Right now I am trying to be as honest as with myself  as I can. I don't want you be involved in some thinking which doesn't include you development in some sense. I want you to be selfish. Love yourself with all you have and care for those who really care for you. Think wisely and have the guts to say "no" whenever it is required. I want you to bring small changes everyday. Small po...

 So I work with a quantum chemistry software known as Gaussian. There is unique feature of this software that whenever there is a normal termination it ends the output file with a quote. I most of the time love the quotes offered by the this software and sometimes they are quite funny and inspirational. So today is my good day and I had two of those: First one: Work faithfully for eight hours a day and don't worry. in time you may become boss and work twelve hours a day and have all the worry. Second one: Luck is a matter of preparation meeting opportunity...............oprah winfrey In the first quote I am unable to decide weather its funny or inspirational 😅 . Have a good day!

 So as I am right now trying to improve myself I came to know that self love is the way in which you can improve yourself , but I had this misconception that  self love means I would love myself unconditionally which is true.. but it in no way it means I would allow myself to do whatever I want. So what exactly does self love means? It means self discipline. It means we should do whatever is good for us...and how do we know what is good for us.. well we always know that.. and do the otherwise. For example we know that if others insist we cannot say no and that leads to so many involvements and that compromises our work, and we say yes. If we are in self love, we will have guts to say no for our sake.